{"id":792,"date":"2021-11-08T05:00:38","date_gmt":"2021-11-08T11:00:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/reconciledworld.org\/flourish\/?p=792"},"modified":"2022-12-19T13:25:32","modified_gmt":"2022-12-19T19:25:32","slug":"why-grief-is-a-gift-from-god","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/reconciledworld.org\/flourish\/why-grief-is-a-gift-from-god\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Grief is a gift from God"},"content":{"rendered":"

Imagine what life would be like without grief? At first you might think it would be wonderful. No fears, no sadness, no pain. But the reality is, all that would still exist\u2026 you just wouldn\u2019t know how to express it. You couldn\u2019t share the value of the loss you\u2019ve experienced. You wouldn\u2019t have a way to express the sadness of missing the person you love. You wouldn\u2019t be able to show appreciation for the experience or job or opportunity that is now gone. A life without grief would be a life void of expressions and emotions. Grief is actually a gift from God. A gift that makes us stronger, healthier, and wiser as we grow and lead in ministry.\u00a0<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

3 Truths about Grief<\/h4>\n
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  1. God created us in His image, with the ability to feel a whole range of emotions – even anger and grief.<\/i><\/b> Grief isn\u2019t a curse, a sin, or a lack of faith. It\u2019s a natural expression of the loss you\u2019ve experienced. Even God too feels grief. (Isaiah 53:3, Eph. 4:30)<\/span><\/li>\n
  2. Grief is not meant to be easy<\/i><\/b>. I can\u2019t find a Bible verse that says grieving is simple, calm, tranquil, stress free, and easy. It\u2019s not there! Grief is hard and takes time and effort \u2013 that is where God and the body of Christ come in.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n
  3. Grief is messy and unpredictable<\/i><\/b>. One moment you may feel numb and the next you might be hit with a wave of sadness. There\u2019s no roadmap for grief. It\u2019s a unique process for everyone and there is no quick fix to recover.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    3 Things God teaches us in our grief<\/h4>\n
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    1. Grief teaches us to direct our trust to a more firm foundation<\/i><\/b>. Psalm 73:26 says, “<\/span>My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.<\/span><\/i>” Left to feelings and emotions alone, we will forever feel hopeless and exhausted. God teaches us that our hope is found on the rock that is Jesus Christ. The rock that gives everlasting joy and peace even in the midst of devastating loss. <\/span>[1]<\/span><\/li>\n
    2. Grief teaches us to rely on God\u2019s strength as we come to the end of our own strength<\/i><\/b>. Grief is often accompanied by regret, loneliness, helplessness, and even depression. It\u2019s only through God\u2019s strength that we can overcome the challenges grief brings into our lives. Grief makes us aware of how much we need the Holy Spirit to empower us to deal with those challenges well. <\/span>[2]<\/span><\/li>\n
    3. Grief teaches us to appreciate what has come and to look forward to the future<\/i><\/b>. The best companions of grief are gratitude and hope. We can be thankful for what God has allowed us to experience with people, things and ventures in the past and be hopeful and excited for the glory that is to come both in this life and in the next. <\/span>[1]<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      3 Reasons why grief is considered a gift<\/h4>\n
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      1. Because grief reminds us to set wise priorities. <\/i><\/b>Every moment that God gives us is a precious time we should use wisely. Grief reminds us our time on earth is finite thus helping us to set our priorities straight.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n
      2. Because embracing grief leads to a pathway of healing<\/i><\/b>. Our bodies were created with built-in outlets for expressing sorrow. Some cry, some process verbally, some exercise, some journal. When we embrace the sadness and allow our bodies to express in healthy ways the pent-up frustration and sadness, we move further down the path towards healing. <\/span>[3]<\/span><\/li>\n
      3. Because in our heartbreak we aren\u2019t alone.<\/i><\/b> We <\/span>will<\/span><\/i> experience heartbreak and, in our heartbreak, God <\/span>will<\/span><\/i> walk with us. God is right there in the midst of the tears. He is right there as you smile over a memory that comes to mind. In our grief we are given the opportunity to see just how close God is. Right there with us every step of the way. <\/span>[3]<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        \u201c<\/span>He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.<\/span><\/i>\u201d (Psalm 147:3)<\/span><\/p>\n

        Grief as a gift<\/h4>\n

        Gifts are usually things you are excited for or anticipate opening, things that make your life better or happier. Grief is rarely that kind of a gift. Instead, it\u2019s a gift that brings perspective, deepens appreciation, and builds intimacy with God. Grief is a gift that God wants to use to change you, to strengthen you, to assure you of His presence and everlasting love.\u00a0<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

        If you are walking through grief today, God is with you. May you find strength and hope in the everlasting promises of Jesus, the man of sorrows, who heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds. I pray in time you too will see that your grief can be a gift that God uses to bring healing in your loss.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

        [1] <\/span>https:\/\/www.christiantoday.com\/article\/why.grief.can.be.a.gift.from.god\/95554.htm<\/span><\/a><\/h6>\n
        [2] <\/span>https:\/\/www.crosswalk.com\/faith\/women\/5-reasons-grief-can-be-a-gift.html<\/span><\/a>\u00a0<\/span><\/h6>\n
        [3] <\/span>https:\/\/www.incourage.me\/2019\/10\/the-gift-of-grief.html<\/span><\/a>\u00a0<\/span><\/h6>\n

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