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Integrating Physical & Spiritual: From Principle to Practice

Reconciled World’s third Core Principle is Integrating Physical and Spiritual. It means that we acknowledge that people are spiritual and physical beings, all intertwined in a way that there is really no such thing as “spiritual problems” and “physical problems”. So called “physical problems” always affect both our body and our spirit, and our spiritual state impacts our physical reality in a constant feedback loop. Likewise, following Jesus means submitting every aspect of our lives to Him–not just having some kind of “spiritual” experience. Even though I feel like a broken record (there’s an archaic analogy for you!), I feel like I should point out that we aren’t very unique or creative in this idea. Christians have been faithful to this core principle since the Apostles [...]

Hanging Up Your Superman Costume

You’ve probably all seen the movie.  The community is in havoc and needs a hero to save it… Along comes Superman to rescue the people, free the city and save the day. How often do we take the same “hero” approach in our service to the poor?  We serve with a motivation to accomplish something for ourselves and for our own personal significance and gain.  And in the process we reduce the poor to objects of our charity that are merely helping to perpetuate our personal pride and selfishness.  We end up serving out of our own neediness, brokenness and sinfulness, not for the well being of the recipient and certainly not for the glory of God. […]

By |2017-09-05T20:22:15-05:00November 19th, 2015|Categories: Learn and Apply|

From Paralysis to Relationship

In the second half of chapter 11 of When Helping Hurts, the authors give some practical advice for effectively partnering with communities in the majority world. We love their suggestions. We asked our friend Celeste Brown de Mercado to add her perspective as well, since she was part of a team that facilitated church-community partnerships in Bolivia with Food for the Hungry. •••••••••• […]

By |2015-08-03T05:30:09-05:00August 3rd, 2015|Categories: Learn and Apply|Tags: |

Mary’s Story: From Outlaw to Minister

Chapter 8 of When Helping Hurts begins to look at how we can effectively engage with people who are experiencing poverty in North America. Fikkert points out: For the first time in history, more poor people live in the suburbs than in cities…Hence, many suburban churches now find themselves on the front lines of America’s war on poverty without even realizing it. (page 169) […]

By |2015-07-20T05:30:40-05:00July 20th, 2015|Categories: Stories, Learn and Apply|Tags: |

How Churches Can Equip People For Work

In the book The Power of Habit, Charles Duhigg, tells the story of Travis Leach. The summarised version is that Travis had a challenging upbringing. He first saw his father overdose when he was nine. He grew up in a home with little food and even less stability. They moved frequently after landlords evicted them for not paying or having too many visitors coming and going. His mother was arrested for drug possession and prostitution. While his parents survived as functional addicts it wasn’t the most healthy of environments. On the good days his parents were passed out, on the bad they would lurch into a cleaning frenzy. […]

By |2015-07-16T05:30:51-05:00July 16th, 2015|Categories: Learn and Apply, From the Directors|Tags: |

The Wooden Labyrinth: A Study in Process

I have never worked in corporate America but from the little I know it seems to operate according to results. If the numbers are rising, the stocks are growing, the network is expanding and the profits are increasing then all else is secondary. Sure it matters to some degree how you get there, but the most important element is the bottom line. Results are a direct correlation to success. Does the same ring true when working with the poor? […]

By |2015-07-06T05:30:24-05:00July 6th, 2015|Categories: Learn and Apply|Tags: |

Confessions of a Well-meaning Donor

In the introduction to When Helping Hurts, Brian Fikkert tells a story about a trip he took to Africa and that, while there, he gave $8 to a woman who urgently needed medical help. Afterward, he regretted his donation. He picks up the story here in chapter 5, explaining the harm that he did—that with $8 he undermined the ministry of the local church, the relationships the woman needed within her community and the leadership of the local pastor. It all sounds so obvious and logical when he explains it like he does. But in the heat of the moment, when I’m confronted with an emaciated child, a picture of a dried up well or a sign that says, “Hungry. Anything helps,” I’m not usually [...]

By |2015-07-02T05:30:10-05:00July 2nd, 2015|Categories: Learn and Apply|Tags: |

Replace One With 1: Let’s Scrap That “Finding Your Niche” Thing

Continuing in our study of “When Helping Hurts” – Chapter 4 There is no doubt you have come across the word “holistic” sometime in your past. It has become a popular buzzword used to describe an approach that sees the “whole” and not just the “parts.” A quick Google search found a wide variety of “holistic” approaches. I found information on holistic medicine, holistic nutrition, holistic politics (really?), holistic wealth management (seriously?), holistic tackling (yes football fans you can holistically tackle a running back…) holistic dog care (no way…) and even a holistic massage parlor in California (no thanks). While some of that sounds a little creepy it does somehow speak to this attitude of wanting to take a well-rounded approach to subjects, situations or [...]

By |2015-06-29T05:30:55-05:00June 29th, 2015|Categories: Learn and Apply|Tags: |
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